For many years now, I have explored the age-old question of who am I? Like, really? When you get beneath the exterior, when things get quiet, the clouds part and the skies clear, who am I in my essence? Still working on that… But, a parallel we invariably find ourselves confronting regularly, whether we’ve found... Continue Reading →
Some Days, We Dance With Darkness
I often say that, in our world today, we only seem to be allowed to have two states. Blessed and blissed. Don’t get me wrong. I love these states! And, there is a whole rainbow of states and emotions that I dance through almost daily. I think we all do. And, these days, it... Continue Reading →
Some Days, We See Patterns
Pete and Repeat sat on a wall. Pete fell off. Who was left? Repeat. Pete and Repeat sat on a wall… Do you remember that joke from when you were a kid? The one that never ended until something finally gave and there was some kind of forced interjection? “Enough already! Let’s go jump rope!” ... Continue Reading →
Some Days, We Are Cosmically Jet-Lagged
I wake up. Groggy and disoriented. I lift my black cotton eye mask. The cabin is still dark. That hard to articulate no-noise noise of wearing earplugs on a plane reverberating in my head. Like I am under water. A combination of pressure and loud quiet. Swimming around in my own little universe. Not sure... Continue Reading →
Some Days, We Are (Always…) In Transition (& Free Virtual Workshop)
I love this time of year. For many reasons. One big part of this is that it is a time of transition. Transition into the cozy months (my favorite). Pulling close what is most dear to me in a snuggly hibernation. Back to school energy. That feeling that a new version of myself might be... Continue Reading →
Some Days, We Hold Both
Lately, I’ve been reflecting on duality. Yin and yang. Happy and sad. Brave and afraid. Right brain and left brain. Today and Some Day. The question I keep coming back to – How do we hold both? Some Day & Today Life comes with tradeoffs. My today is both limiting and enabling. Empowering. Inspiring. So,... Continue Reading →
Some Days, We Are In Transition
I love this time of year. For many reasons. One big part of this is that it is a time of transition. Transition into the holiday season (my favorite). The winter solstice taking us from darker and darker days to increasing light. Transition into the new year. New beginnings. Possibility. My career transitions have always... Continue Reading →
Some Days, I Go Against the Grain (Or, Grape…)
If you had told me a year ago that I would be sober in Sonoma (during crush, no less…), I would have thought you were having a laugh. And, yet, here I am. Coming up on eleven months of blissfully embracing an alcohol-free lifestyle and traveling through picturesque wine country in peak season. A very... Continue Reading →
Some Days, We Pay It Forward
Sitting in the room, surrounded by the brightest women from the biggest law firms and some of the most accomplished and acclaimed General Counsel, I’m struck by the energy, the power and the wisdom. It’s palpable. Ms. JD’s LaddHer Up retreat brings together women law firm associates in their first six years of practice –... Continue Reading →
Some Days, We Have to See What’s Not There
What is vision, but a daydream? We grow up and add structure, new words like “pillars” and various acronyms but, at its heart, is the dream. Yet, we often talk about being a dreamer like it is a bad thing. Unrealistic. Unprofessional. Untethered. I am a dreamer. A daydream believer. And, I have come to... Continue Reading →